Be Happy and Dance

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Matthew Harding has done it again. Another wonderful video from around the world. Dance if it makes you happy!
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Be Happy and Dance

I am so happy and grateful for…

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Be Happy! Dance!

My friends and chosen family, music, the Ocean, every penny I have, a wonderful world of opportunities, dancing, delicious food, the roof over my head, my health, my freedom, my talents and gifts, the Sun, Moon and the Stars, LOVE, the experiences that make me who I am, Learning new things, my bright future, Peace, Giving, Energy, my Life, Rain Forests, Meditation, the Universe, Hugs and Kisses, computers, wisdom, smiling, entertainment, Planet Earth, and the to Dance!

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Six Steps for Forgiveness

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Forgiving others is essential for living a beautiful life.  Your experience of someone who has hurt you, while painful, is now nothing more than a thought or feeling that you carry around. These thoughts of resentment, anger, and hatred represent slow, debilitating energies that will dis-empower you if you continue to let these thoughts occupy space in your head. If you could release them, you would know more happiness.

Six steps to forgiveness and living a beautiful life:

Step 1:  Understanding YourselfAffirmation-Forgiveness4

Whenever you’re upset over the conduct of others, take the focus off those you’re holding responsible for your inner distress. Shift your mental energy to allowing yourself to be with whatever you’re feeling — let the experience be as it may, without blaming others for your feelings. Don’t blame yourself either! Just allow the experience to unfold and tell yourself that no one has the power to make you uneasy without your consent, and that you’re unwilling to grant that authority to this person right now.

By taking responsibility for how you choose to respond to anything or anyone, you’re aligning yourself with the beautiful dance of life. By changing the way you choose to perceive the power that others have over you and you will see a bright new world of unlimited potential for yourself and you will know instantly how to forgive and let go of anything.

Step 2: Take Responsibility for Your Part

Avoid thoughts and activities that involve telling people who are perfectly capable of making their own choices what to do. In your family, remember that you do not own anyone. The poet Kahlil Gibran reminds you:

When you blame another you are giving your own power away, because you are placing the responsibility for your feelings on someone else. People in our lives may behave in ways that trigger uncomfortable responses in us. However they did not get into our minds and create the buttons that have been pushed.Forgiveness Course

Taking responsibility for our own feelings and reactions is mastering our ability to respond. In other words we begin to consciously choose rather than simply react.

Removing blame means never assigning responsibility to anyone else for what you’re experiencing. It means that you’re willing to say, “I may not understand why I feel this way, why I have this illness, why I’ve been victimized, or why I had this accident, but I’m willing to say without any guilt or resentment that I own it. I live with, and I am responsible for, having it in my life.”

If you take responsibility for having the experience, then at least you have a chance to also take responsibility for removing it or learning from it. If you’re in some small (perhaps unknown) way responsible for that migraine headache or that depressed feeling, then you can go to work to remove it or discover what its message is for you. If, on the other hand, someone or something else is responsible in your mind, then of course you’ll have to wait until they change for you to get better. And that is unlikely to occur. So you go home with nothing and are left with nothing when peace is really on the other side of the coin.

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Step 3: Release the Past – Be Present

Forgiveness of yourself and of others will release you from the prison of the past.

Only in your present moment can you create your future. If you are holding onto the past, you cannot be in the present. How can you be happy in this moment if you continue to choose to think angry and resentful thoughts?

Thoughts of bitterness cannot create joy, no matter how justified you feel you are, no matter what they did, if you insist on holding on to the past then you will never be free.

When you do not flow freely with life in the present moment, it usually means you are holding onto a past moment. It can be regret, sadness, hurt, fear, or guilt, blame, anger, resentment, and sometimes a desire for revenge. Each state comes from a refusal to let go and come into the present moment.

Step 4: Refrain from Judgement

When you stop judging and simply become an observer, you will know  inner peace. With that sense of inner peace, you’ll find yourself happier and free of the negative energy of resentment. A bonus is that you’ll find that others are much more attracted to you. A peaceful person attracts peaceful energy.

My criticism and condemnation of the thoughts, feelings, and behavior of others—regardless of how right anForgiveness Loving the inner childd moral my human self-convinces me it is—is a step away from God-realization. And it is God-consciousness that allows for my wishes to be fulfilled, as long as they are aligned with my Source of being. I can come up with a long list of reasons why I should be judgmental and condemnatory toward another of God’s children and why, damn it, I am right. Yet if I want to perfect my own world—and I so want to do so—then I must substitute love for these judgments.

Step 5: Let Go

What causes annoyance and anger after a dispute? The generic response would be a laundry list detailing why the other person was wrong and how illogically and unreasonably they behaved, concluding with something like, “I have a right to be upset when my [daughter, mother-in-law, ex-husband, boss, or whomever you’re thinking of] speaks to  me that way!”

Rather than attempting to dominate with your forcefulness, be like water: flow everywhere there’s an opening. Soften your hard edges by being more tolerant of contrary opinions. Interfere less, and substitute listening for directing and telling. When someone offers you their viewpoint, try responding with: “I’ve never considered that before—thank you. I’ll give it some thought.”Hay House Clearance

Step 6: Choose to think thoughts that make you feel good right now

The act of forgiveness happens in your own mind, it really has nothing to do with the other person. The reality of true forgiveness lies in setting ourselves free from holding onto the pain. It is simply an act of releasing yourself from the negative energy. You forgive them and release them.

You can choose to think thoughts that make you feel good right now. You can choose to practice thinking thoughts that create a positive today and tomorrow. Know that you will be creating thinking habits that will serve you well forever.

You have a choice. You can choose to stay stuck and bitter or you can do yourself a favor by willingly forgiving the past and let it go and move on to create a joyous, fulfilling life. You have the freedom to make life anything you want it to be because you have freedom of choice.

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Choose Happiness Success & Abundance

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Affirmation-ChooseNEW7Adding the practice of positive thinking and self-empowerment supported by affirmations will lead you to success, happiness and abundance. This affirmation is a carefully formatted statement that can be repeated to one’s self and written down frequently.

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The Answer Is You

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In this inspiring video, visionary teacher Michael Bernard Beckwith delves deep into practical methods for manifesting prosperity and health, living a rich and fulfilling life, understanding universal laws and gaining greater self-awareness, courage, and self-reliance.

The Answer is Still You

Michael ask us to celebrate and explore all our human potential and that within you is the answer. When you keep on asking the right question, you will discover you knew the answer all the time.

Your not the body, you have a body. Your not the mind, you have a mind. You can make choices that liberate you. Choice is a function of ever expanding awareness. You are here to let it go.

You no longer have to be a victim to anything, that thru your expanded awareness of this dynamic and magnificent presence, you get to make a choice, to become more yourself and anchor on earth in time and space the eternal qualities of Love and Beauty and of well-being.Liberating Choices

Who you are is a unique emanation of something so wonderful and so magnificent that by means of you, want to come into expression, wants to reveal itself. And yet these transcendent yet eminent qualities that we call Love, and that we call Beauty, and that we call harmonizing Prosperity, and that we call abundance, that we call living intelligence.

Set the Conditions for the Seed to Grow

You take a little seed, and in this seed is a template and idea, called the rose bush. This particular seed can be tossed about on the winds, for a long period of time. And then a number of years later it finally found itself in the fertile soil. When it hit that soil, and it began to rain, and there was proper nutrition and sunlight, and all the things necessary, that seed began to grow into a magnificent rose bush.

The idea being that within that seed is a perfect pattern already placed there, not in the future, not in the past, but in the newness of that moment that instant all ready there. And when the condition was met that seed became its full potential.

There are seeds within you, ideas within you, vision within you. And when conditions are met, no matter what other condition that occurred in the past, it doesn’t matter on anything that is going on outside of you.

Create your own conditions within your mind, your potential will rise up and express itself and you will become more yourself. All of these qualities are within you now!

The moment the condition was met, in that instant the seed began to grow, the high potential within you will rise.On Demand Courses

You are going to create the condition within yourself, with guidelines that you will practice, so that you no longer are thinking that your good is outside of yourself, you are no longer thinking that it is in the future, you are no longer thinking that someone else has it, you are no longer thinking that if everything outside would just come together I would be Happy.

Worry-free diet: “Grateful Fruit”

We want to wake up every single day in Gratitude for everything that we already have and we want to begin to use what we have … take an inventory in your life of every good and perfect thing that you already have, every gift, every capacity within you, develop and awareness of what you have

Michael’s Worry-free diet includes “Grateful Fruit”:

Every single day of your life, you develop the mindset and Heartset of waking up and going on a hunt to look for what you can be grateful for, you go on a hunt to look for what you can be thankful for and how you live in appreciation. You begin to live this gratitude to such a level that you begin to discover that there is more and more things to be grateful for until you mind becomes an avenue of awareness of gratitude it becomes your new Heartset it becomes your new point of reference and because of that gratitude and thanksgiving more and more can begin to flow into your life.

There are a couple of stages of gratitude. One stage to become grateful for what you have, it’s a beautiful thing. In stage two you become grateful for the negativity in your life. That’s a hard one. Bad things happen, you say Thank You. I’m so glad this is taking place, why, because you live in a progressive universe. It is coming into your life to help you grow. If you become grateful in the midst of seeming negativity you join forces with the progress universe, you learn your lessons faster, you harvest your blessings to an ever increasing level and you spin into a greater awareness of the infinite possibilities within you.

Gratitude for simply being alive, gratitude not attached to anything. This is the gratitude that aligns you with all of nature. Right now all of nature is giving thanks and is grateful for existing, period!

Three Questions to Ask on a Regular Basis

Three questions you want to ask yourself on a regular basis, to live with:

  1. How can I grow? Because you are an evolving, unique being, every day you want to have an insight, a revelation. You’ve practiced something new, you’ve tried something new, so that you can become more of yourself and express yourself better.
  2. What can I give? Ask this question, the Universe fills your hands with more than you can handle.
  3. What can I celebrate? Nature is in celebration for simply being in existence, celebrating constantly. As you recognize things to celebrate, you lift your octave and what happens is you keep bringing thing into your life’s experience, you keep creating, you keep manifesting, more and more things to celebrate.

These Heartsets and Mindsets exist for you to discover that answer is you, to the question of more prosperity, more health, right relationships, abundance, and expansion in times of contraction. The answer is you, not outside of you, not someone else. The Answer Is You!!

Today is the beginning of a new life, say yes to it.Hay House Clearance

 

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You are Beautiful

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You are Beautiful Share with someone and make a difference in their day.

You are Beautiful!

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Move Into Gratitude

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In this video, Neale Donald Walsch describes how to move from judgement and into Gratitude

The Only Thing That Matters

Join critically acclaimed author of the best-selling Conversations with God series, and spiritual teacher Neale Donald Walsch for a very special 2-hour Online Event.

The Only Thing that Matters: An Evening with Neale Donald Walsch

Ninety-eight percent of the people on this planet are spending 98% of their time on things that don’t matter. Wouldn’t you like to find out how to be part of the 2% who are showing up as the grandest and greatest version of themselves?

Learn about what Neale calls “The Willingness Toolbox,” which includes lessons in gratefulness and gratitude, re-contextualization, compassion, forgiveness foregone and meditation.

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Be Happy

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Be Happy!
Be Happy!

Be Happy!
Release the Power of Happiness in YOU
by Robert Holden, Ph.D.

“Happiness is a spiritual path. The more you learn about true happiness, the more you discover the truth of who you are, what is important, and what your life is for.”

Be Happy! is the follow-up to Robert Holden’s best-selling Happiness NOW! Robert gives you a front-row seat on his 8-week happiness program-famously tested by independent scientists for the BBC-TV documentary called How to Be Happy. Step-by-step he introduces you to a set of proven techniques, principles, meditations, and insights that will help you be happy now!

Key lessons include:

  • Follow Your Joy – stop chasing happiness and start enjoying your life as it happens.
  • The Happiness Contract – undo mental and emotional blocks to happiness and success.
  • The Receiving Meditation – increase your natural capacity for happiness and abundance.
  • The Forgiveness Practice – give up all hopes for a better past and be happy now.
  • The Gift of Happiness – use the power of happiness to bless your life and benefit others.

“This happiness training not only changes the way you feel; it actually changes the way your brain functions.” – Professor Davidson, Wisconsin-Madison University

Delivery choices:

Hardcover Book: Usually ships within 2 to 3 business days

eBook Immediate Delivery for Amazon Kindle, iTunes, NOOK, or Sony Reader

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Audio CDs 6-CD Set Usually ships within 2 to 3 business days

Online Course An 8-lesson happiness course to make breakthroughs in your life

2015 Tour – Join Robert Holden for an inspiring inquiry into personal alchemy, inner transformation and new beginnings

About the Author

Robert Holden, PH.D
Robert Holden

Robert Holden, Ph.D., is the Director of The Happiness Project and Success Intelligence. His innovative work has been featured on Oprah, Good Morning America, and media worldwide. Robert coaches leaders in business, education, politics and healthcare. Robert is a student of A Course in Miracles. He is author of the best selling books: Happiness NOW!, Shift Happens!, Authentic Success (formerly titled Success Intelligence) and Be Happy. Robert also hosts a weekly show on Hay

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Louie Schwartzberg – Happiness Revealed

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TEDxSF – Louie Schwartzberg – Happiness Revealed

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Louie Schwartzberg – Gratitude

Louie Schwartzberg is an award-winning cinematographer, director, and producer introducing his video called Happiness Revealed, from the perspective of a young girl and an elderly man (Brother David Steindl-Rast). Gratefulness for the gift of today. “Natures beauty is a gift that cultivates appreciation and gratitude.” – Louie Schwartzberg – Happiness Revealed

Louie Schwartzberg is an award-winning cinematographer, director, and producer whose notable career spans more than three decades providing breathtaking imagery for feature films, television shows, documentaries and commercials. As a visual artist, Louie has created some of the most iconic and memorable film moments of our time. He is an innovator in the world of time-lapse, nature, aerial and “slice-of-life” photography – the only cinematographer in the world who has literally been shooting 24 hours a day, 7 days a week continuously for more than 30 years. Louie was recognized as one of the top 70 Cinematographers for the On Film Kodak Salute Series. He is a member of the Directors Guild of America and the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts and Sciences. Louie is credited by many with pioneering the contemporary stock footage industry by founding Energy Film Library, a global company with a network of 12 foreign offices, which was acquired by Getty Images in 1997. Motion picture clients of his cinematic artistry include Sex in the City, The Bourne Ultimatum, Die Hard 4, Syriana, Crash, Men in Black and classics such as American Beauty, Koyaanisqatsi and ET among others. Louie went on to found BlackLight Films, a creative production company specializing in producing original theatrical feature, large format films, HD and TV programming.

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Lessons on Life – The Empty Pickle Jar

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A Lesson On LifeThis story has been told before, however this time it was used to demonstrate time as it relates to priorities. Lesson learned, put time into the big stuff first.  Remember, every day is a gift… and the quality of your life is your gift to yourself. And there is always room for chocolate.

Lessons on Life – The Empty Pickle Jar

A professor stood before his philosophy class holding a large empty pickle jar. When the class began he proceeded to fill the jar with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course the sand filled up everything else. He asked once again if the jar was full. They responded with a unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced a bottle of chocolate milk from under the table. He poured it into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.”

The golf balls are the important things… your FAMILY, and CHILDREN, your HEALTH, and FRIENDS.

The pebbles are the other things that matter… like your JOB, your HOME, your CAR. The sand is everything else, the small stuff.

If you put the sand into the jar first, there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that make you happy. Play with your children, get regular checkups, enjoy dinner with friends and family. There will always be time to clean the house.

Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities… the rest is just sand.

One student asked, “what about the chocolate milk?” The professor responded, “No matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for chocolate.”

Remember, every day is a gift… and the quality of your life is your gift to yourself.

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The Science of Happiness – An Experiment in Gratitude

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What makes you happy? Have you ever wondered why? Join Soul Pancake as they take an experimental approach on what makes people happier.

What makes you happy? Having fun, delicious food, hanging out with friends, making money?

Consider this, psychologist have scientifically proven that one of the greatest contributing factors to overall happiness in your life is how much gratitude you show.

Check out the study here!

Soul Pancake decided to perform the test themselves. They gather a selection of volunteers. First they took a test to gain a good idea of their current level of happiness. Then they were asked to close their eyes and to think of someone who was really influential in their lives, someone did something really amazing or important for them. They wrote down as much as they could about why this person was so important. Then they really put them on the spot and tried to get them to call that person and read what they wrote about them.

Watch the video to see the experiment in action.

The Science Of Happiness
The Science Of Happiness

For those who took the time to actually write something down but couldn’t make the phone call, happiness increase from 2 to 4%. Good but not exactly mind blowing.
Now for those who actually made the phone call and personally expressed their gratitude, happiness increased from 4 to 19%.

So either way, expressing your gratitude will make you a happier person.

The most interesting outcome of the experiment, the person who experienced the biggest jump in happiness was least happiest person who participated. That means if you are having a particularly tough time, trying this out will more likely have a greater impact on you.

 

The Science of Happiness – An Experiment in Gratitude

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